Hi there! It's Emily and I am back, once again relating another sad book to another song! Lately, I have been reading the novel, Ellen Foster by Kaye Gibbons. It's about a little girl who lives in an abusive home. Her father was an abusive alcoholic and her mother was very ill. Ellen's father was very cruel to his wife and daughter. One day, Ellen's mother overdosed on pills and Ellen's father refused to let Ellen call for help. This resulted in his wife passing away. After this traumatic event, you would expect Ellen's father to realize that he had gone too far and get help. However, that was not the case. Ellen's situation reminded me of a beautiful and heartbreaking song by Demi Lovato called, "For The Love Of A Daughter." Some powerful lyrics from this song are,
"Lied to your flesh and your blood
Put your hands on the ones that you swore you lovedDon't you remember I'm your baby girl?
How could you throw me right out of your world?
So young when the pain had begun
Now forever afraid of being loved".
These lyrics can be related to Ellen's relationship with her father because Ellen feels abandoned by her father. He abuses her and makes her believe that she isn't worthy of being loved by him. Some more lyrics from the song are,
"Please father
Put the bottle down
For the love of a daughter".
These lyrics are especially powerful because all Ellen wants is for him to quit drinking. Yet, again and again, he chooses alcohol over his own daughter. Ellen's situation is very sad, and I am hopeful that as the book goes on, she will find a parent figure who will truly love her and be there for her. Until next time, Emily.